What have I gotten myself into? Something Amazing!

18 days ago I stepped off of my flight, ready to be overwhelmed. New people, new smells, new sounds, etc. Everything would be new. I got through customs, and stepped outside into my new life for the next 4 months. I had tunnel vision almost immediately. Hundreds of people waited around the exit, hoping to catch a glimpse of their loved ones. Signs heralding the arrivals of corporate workers were waved above this throng. None of that was for me. I was on my own in this new place. It was my job to get to where I needed to go. What had I gotten myself into? Something amazing!

Portuguese Time

Lisbon immediately was both exactly what I expected, and a mysterious place. Everyone takes things at a leisurely pace, one slow enough to ensure maximum enjoyment of a glass of vinho verde or a petite Super Bock. I’ll admit I got a little frustrated in the local grocery store as I got stuck behind a man who slowly argued that the chips he had bought were advertised as 40 cents cheaper, followed by the cashier jauntily retrieving said price tag, manually entering it in, and then promptly leaving again after running out of cash. Did I miss anything by waiting an extra 5 minutes? Not at all. The Portuguese seem to understand that it is not the end of the world if some things run a little late. Maybe that’s why my macroeconomics professor showed up 10 minutes late for the first class without a way to get into the classroom, which resulted in class actually starting 25 minutes late. I won’t question it. It is a much less stressful way to live once you embrace it!

Mandatory Attendance

ISCTE, my home school for the next 4 months

Despite the very lackadaisical attitude about time present here, my host university, ISCTE has an opposing view on the same issue. As I received my ISCTE student card, I learned that its main purpose was for attendance! Yes, the school keeps track of the percentage of each class you attend, with 80% the benchmark to pass or fail the entire class. I can only imagine the uproar that would be generated if a university back home were to implement this policy. They take showing up to class seriously here. In fact, my Microeconomics II professor repeated multiple times during the first lecture to come to class and use his office hours because we are paying for them. He’s not wrong. In both my economics classes, two tests each make up the entire grade. If I were to fail one, I would have the chance to take one test for my entire grade. Luckily, the classes so far haven’t seemed to hard, and shouldn’t take away from the enjoyment of the beautiful city of Lisbon.

Wild Life

Erasmus isn’t quite only about partying. They took us to fairy tale Sintra.

Portugal has one animal that seems to be present everywhere. This animal is mostly nocturnal, and is especially enticed by signs advertising 10 shots for 5 euros. The party animal is to be found everywhere in the city limits (but don’t take that as reason to believe that they won’t take it out of the city too). These party animals especially center around one area: Erasmus Corner. I had never heard of the Erasmus Program before attending the ISCTE orientations with the 450+ other international students studying abroad there. But, as we mingled whilst munching on pastries and sipping on coffee (well, not me, I hate coffee, Washington is proud of me), that’s all I heard about. These European students are getting paid to go to school in another country. I guess it’s a scholarship, but their scholarship covers their tuition, and gives them stipends to find an apartment on their own. So, not only do they get to discover a new country for free, they get free university credit! “But Jeremy, what does free college have to do with party animals?” Well, all Erasmus students, through Erasmus Corner, have access to hundreds of parties and excursions every academic year, all by paying 20 euros for a Erasmus card. Us lowly Americans attended an excursion to Sintra with Erasmus Life, and our “guide” swore like a sailor, smoked an entire box of cigarettes in seconds flat, and rolled down a hill outside a palace (although I must admit I convinced him to do it, and then promptly did it myself). Some of my flat mates attended a welcome dinner where the Erasmus mentors kept giving them drinks until they fell out of their chair, and then put them back into the chair. Drinks flow fast. And this is what I have gathered about Europe. Drinking seems to me so taboo in the US in comparison, something to be done behind closed doors. Public drunkenness is looked down upon. In Portugal, there is an entire neighborhood, Bairro Alto, where one can walk from bar to bar, drink in hand, and one can think nary a thought about it. Drinking is not always necessarily to get wild. Sometimes, it might be sipping on wine while listening to Portugal’s folk music, Fado. It might be a beer on the rooftop after a long, hot day at work. But, it is omnipresent.

Shock?

I don’t mind being shocked by little beautiful spots like this

It is not inconceivable that even after only two weeks here I could begin feeling the effects of culture shock. However, I have not felt any pressing desire to go home (although that doesn’t mean I don’t miss people). Nothing about Portugal or its people have caused me great stress. I think the reason for this is because I tempered my expectations before I came. I did not expect the people to be like me, or things to be like they were back home. I expected changes, and I prepared myself to embrace them. I came to study here because of the differences. So, as differences have presented themselves to me, I have not shied away. But, my culture shock grade is incomplete. I have not yet had the most chance to experience culture shock, as I still speak too little Portuguese to have any attempt at a conversation with a native. I wish I had been able to take Portuguese classes before I came. Alas, I start Portuguese this week. I hope to use what I learn to make myself uncomfortable, to go out and shock myself. I want to be shocked! I hope that Lisbon will continue to shock me with its unique flavor and personality, and its amazing scenery and views.

 

Thanks for reading! I hope this blog has given a little taste on what it has been like to live here so far. I will try to have some more shorter blogs that briefly describe some moments in my everyday life that focus on the senses. I really want y’all to understand as best as y’all can what I’m experiencing everyday! Subscribe if you haven’t already, and leave feedback. It’s always appreciated. Be on the lookout for a few lifestyle blogs, and a blog about an upcoming excursion to the sunny and resort-laden Algarve region! Until next time…

 

Jeremy Caldeira

13 thoughts on “What have I gotten myself into? Something Amazing!

  1. I was thoroughly impressed by your detailed, but succinct post on your Amazing Time thus far!! I encourage you to go full on in learning the language as it makes living in a new country so exciting. You will have them helping you with expressions, words and just making you feel comfortable. You will leave in four months feeling you have learned a second(maybe your third or fourth) language and feel so wonderful.
    God’s blessings as you continue to “get to class on time”.
    Linda Philip

  2. I seem to have lost the post I wrote. Just wanted to compliment you on your succinct and enjoyable post about your Amazing time thus far!
    I also want to encourage you in your language study and usage. You will find it so wonderful and the people with whom you converse will be most helpful with words, expressions etc. that you “kind of” mess up. All of us who have learned a new language have gone through that.
    God’s blessings on your continued studies. I’ll be looking forward to more posts about your adventures.
    Linda Philip

    1. Thanks for the kind words! For some reason I have to approve the comments before they are posted. I cannot find the setting to turn that off, so the comments won’t show until I can manually approve them! Thanks for both comments!

  3. Observation is such a learning experience. Enjoy the differences . Maybe soon you will be able to write your blog in Portuguese, although none of your Portuguese relatives will be able to read it. A. Janet

    1. Thanks for the kind words! I don’t know if I’ll be that fluent by the end of the trip. But, I’ll try. Class is going well so far, and I already feel more confident.

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  5. Amazing experience! I would love to visit this place and feel this Lisbon lifestyle. I am the 3rd year student and I really need to slow down and have some rest. Even now, I have a lot of tasks at college, and I think I should hire someone to work on my tasks while I am on vacation. I would go to papersbattle.com and check some reviews before hiring an expert. I think that would help me not to worry about all my tasks and enjoy the city fully.

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  7. Congratulations on your journey so far, Jeremy! Your reflections on your first 18 days in Lisbon are both insightful and entertaining. It’s fascinating to see how you’ve adapted to the Portuguese way of life, from their relaxed approach to time management to the importance of attending classes.

    Your observations on the Erasmus Program and the party culture in Portugal are quite intriguing. It’s interesting to see how this program allows European students to study abroad for free, and how the concept of drinking and socializing differs between the US and Portugal. Your experiences attending events with Erasmus Life and adjusting to the drinking culture provide a unique perspective for your readers.

    I appreciate your honesty about not feeling culture shock yet, as you’ve prepared yourself for differences and embraced them. Your upcoming Portuguese classes will surely help you connect more with the locals and deepen your understanding of the culture.

    Keep up the great storytelling, Jeremy! Your readers are undoubtedly enjoying your journey through Lisbon and your willingness to share your experiences. We look forward to more updates on your adventures, insights, and upcoming excursions. Don’t forget to encourage your readers to subscribe and share their thoughts. Safe travels and happy learning!

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