We have reached the end of the journey exploring the main ideas written about by Don Miguel Ruiz in The Mastery of Love and The Four Agreements. It was hard to summarize these concepts in a condensed blog format. A more complete picture can be painted if you flipped through a hard copy of the book itself. These are not the only resources discussing these topics though.
Leo Buscaglia earned the nickname of “Dr. Love” at the University of Southern California when he started to teach a non-credit, non-graded class called “Love 1A.” The suicide of one of his students led him to realize there was something out of place with our educational system that is focused on stuffing people of full of knowledge while forgetting they are human.
At that time in the 1960s, no course of that type had been offered at any university in the country. Through his experiences growing up in an immigrant family, journeys of self-discovery throughout Asia, and his unique educational perspective, Buscaglia has many joyful, humorous, and touching stories to share. He has written many books highlighting this topic, one of which I read is Living, Loving, and Learning. Although the approach taken toward the subject matter is quite different than Ruiz’s, there are many overlaps in their themes and messages. The complement of these ideas work very well together.
Another author who may be more well-known is Eckhart Tolle. I encountered Tolle when reading A New Earth. This was his third book, the first two being less well-know until he appeared on the Oprah Winfrey show. Tolle experienced depression for much of his early life until having an inner transformation in his late twenties. Much of this transformation process appears to be related to the concepts that are discussed in his subsequent work. The ideas of being present and recognizing we have the power of choice resonate though his work, which are the themes I find in common among all of the authors.
Seeing these similar ideas in different contexts does a better job bringing them to life. A person can find more ways to relate to the concepts and notice the universality of their application. I believe exposure to such ideas is akin to experiencing the wisdom of an elder being passed on to one’s self. If the valuable part of making mistakes is to learn from them and avoid repeating them, then gaining wisdom from ideas like these is a catalyst in seeing such mistakes or avoiding them in the first place.
Exposure to such ideas has been a helpful part of my own journey in life. Perhaps it depends on one’s personality as to whether exploring these ideas is interesting or worthwhile. If these ideas or the thought of engaging with them seems irritating or pointless, I’d be very curious to know the motivations behind that expression and would be fascinated to learn the ways wisdom has presented itself in your life as a positive growth factor. I imagine rigorous scientific minds would be less apt to explore ideas like the ones mentioned here, preferring hard facts and confirmable evidence instead.
At the end of the day, I believe the most important part of our life’s journey is creating a world we look forward to living in, which includes having a future. The economic and political forces of our current times are very good at ruling the world with intelligence, but seem to lack in wisdom. Scientific advances that help us strip the earth’s resources faster, blow up larger patches of the planet more efficiently, permanently alter the composition of plant life and food materials, or generate larger quarterly returns by privatizing every conceivable sphere of life might be justified as a smart move from the perspective of making progress in some isolated way. However, taken as a whole I find it hard to see how many of these dynamics help with either creating a world we look forward to living in or that has a future. Increasing awareness and wisdom about life in a larger way should at least give us a better chance.