Japan: Post Program – Ethan McConkey

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Structure

I struggled greatly with how to organize my thoughts in this final post. In the end, I have decided that I will be answering some of the questions proposed in the prompts as written. I wanted to come up with something more creative, maybe some kind of timeline or something, but everything resulted in a messy string of words that seemed to do the opposite of my goal; to inform those who come after me. I’ve also included a section where I reflect on some of my travel experiences, in hopes of inspiring others to try their hand at some of the things I’ve done.

What were some of your biggest takeaways from your international experience?

I think my absolute biggest takeaway from my time abroad is that it is really important that people make efforts to educate themselves about countries and cultures that are different from theirs, as I think it can be a very eye-opening thing. Being able to escape the vacuum of your own culture and see it through a new lens really helps to make you a more well-informed and independent person, in my experience.

What advice would you pass along to other interested students considering studying abroad?

This isn’t really advice, more so just something that I wish more people knew, but studying abroad can be affordable for many people. I never would have thought I could afford to study abroad, no matter how much I wanted to, but in reality, with a bit of help from people around me (and financial aid), it was very affordable.

Is there anything you would do or plan differently based on your experience?

I wish I would’ve put myself out there a bit sooner. While I did end up meeting a great group of friends, it took me a while to adjust and move beyond the one or two people I met within my first few days. It can take a lot to put yourself out there, but I implore anyone studying abroad to make an effort to do so!

Have you considered going abroad again or researching international internships and careers?

I have wanted to teach English abroad for a long time, and spending time in Japan has made it all the clearer to me that Japan is the country I would most like to teach in. However, being able to meet people from different countries I may have never considered before has opened my eyes to some other opportunities. Namely, Taiwan. I was able to make a few Taiwanese friends, and now that I have been introduced to the wonderful culture and people of the country, I would really like to go there someday, even if it just ends up being for travel.

We have multiple identities that cross the boundaries of race, gender, sexuality, class, age, ethnicity, religion, ability, veteran status, citizenship, and more. Describe your experience exploring identity in your host community.

Japan is a country almost notorious for its rules, and its “the nail that sticks out gets hammered down” approach to individuality. However, I wouldn’t say that this reputation is necessarily true. Of course, my sample size mostly consisted of people included those specifically attending an international school, so perhaps it isn’t a good reflection of the population as a whole (I mean, I can only do so much) but I met many people at my school and throughout the country who broke the mold of traditionalism and who lived happily as truly themselves.

This may be the first time you lived abroad as a guest in another country—a country for which you may or may not have citizenship. How did it feel to be “the foreigner”?

Japan is a very tourist-heavy country, so while the population is nearly 98% ethnically Japanese, being a foreigner isn’t honestly all that uncommon. In my experience, I was often painted a scene that I would stick out in any crowd as the only foreigner, but I only found this true on occasion. Of course once you leave more touristy areas this does become increasingly more true, however, I think speaking some of the language really helps to close this perceived gap.

My best experiences

One thing that wasn’t really on my radar when I started realizing I was actually going to be able to go was one of my biggest interests. If at all possible, I would highly recommend attending a sports game in Japan, or really in any country you find yourself in. It’s a great way to immerse within the local people and share a common ground, especially when the sport you go to watch is niche in the country, in my case I caught a Tohoku Free Blades ice hockey match in Hachinohe City, Aomori Prefecture. It was entirely worth the trip, even if it was a bit out of the way of the main bullet train lines.

The other thing I really highly recommend is actually something I did on my final bit of travel in Tokyo before heading home, and that was going to a concert. I attended メメタァ・ザ・ワールド・フェスティバル 2024 (Memetaa the World Festival 2024) in Shinjuku, Tokyo which consisted of many bands I didn’t know, but also one of my absolute favorites, KALMA. I was incredibly fortunate to be able to see them live, something I may never get the chance to do again, and also got introduced to another great band in the process. I highly recommend catching a concert or a festival if there’s something you’re interested in seeing. Trust me, it will be worth it for the memories!

(Small tip about concerts in Japan; Many are picture and video free! Keep an eye out for signs PERMITTING phone usage during shows, not ones disallowing it! From what I can gather, it is pretty much the standard for it to be disallowed. Speaking from experience!)

Conclusion

Now that studying abroad exists only as something in the past for me, I can’t help but wish to return to the many great moments and great people I had met along the way. I want to sincerely thank everyone who helps the study abroad programs through Western run smoothly, it was truly a life changing experience for me and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

Thank you!

Post Program: Takeaways, Advice, and Reflection

Anna

Hi Readers,

I imagined that my previous post would be the final one for my blog, but it turns out that I have a post-program reflection to complete. To contextualize, I’ve been participating in WWU’s Travel Writing Program by responding to the writing prompts at each stage of my program. Today, I’ll be discussing some of my main takeaways, advice for other students going abroad, and other reflections.

Key Takeaways

  • Learning happens both inside and outside of the classroom. This is why I decided to study abroad and do service-learning (SL)! I sought to finish my last Spanish elective and fulfilled this requirement at my host university. Also, I was excited to gain hands-on experience outside of the classroom. Doing service-learning (= community service + reflective assignments) was an eye-opening experience, because it allowed me to practice my Spanish with native speakers and lend a hand within the community. My Spanish education had prepared me in terms of grammar, reading, and writing, so I didn’t come to Costa Rica to focus solely on academics. I knew that I would truly benefit from complete immersion gained through SL. Volunteering at the music center played a fundamental role in my personal and professional growth.
  • Costa Rican culture is nuanced and reflects some aspects of U.S. culture. At a surface level, I observed what a tourist might: many Costa Ricans are kind and accommodating. It’s common to smile and exchange small talk while out and about – even with people you don’t know. Also, Costa Rica is known for its biodiversity and ecological sustainability. People are aware of climate issues and take actionable measures to protect the environment. After living in the capital, San José, and traveling to five of the seven provinces, I began to notice the nuances and complexities of the culture.

    For example, Costa Ricans (“ticos”) are more flexible when it comes to time; they take their time, are patient, and adopt a slower-paced lifestyle. When I discussed this topic with my host mom, who’s lived in both the U.S. and Costa Rica, she felt that life is more fast-paced and productivity-driven in the U.S. While abroad in Costa Rica, I often felt restless when nothing was scheduled, and became impatient when things weren’t happening “on-time”. However, I gradually embraced “tico time” and learned to be more patient with others.
  • Another observation is Costa Ricans’ fascination with the U.S. Walking around the city, you’ll see shops called “Ropa Americana”, which are second-hand stores advertising “American Clothing”. Also, when I first arrived in Costa Rica, I noticed that many chain companies – Starbucks, Subway, malls with Nike and American Eagle, were everywhere. It seemed that facets of U.S. culture (capitalism) were unescapable in Costa Rica. Adapting to social and cultural norms was an integral part of my time abroad.
Can you guess what this store is inspired by?

Advice for those interested in studying abroad

Consider your priorities and trust yourself. Before studying abroad, you’ll probably have many questions about where to study, what to study, how to finance your trip, etc. The planning and logistical aspects can be stressful and overwhelming, and you may not know where to start. I recommend considering your priorities for studying abroad. Do you want to fulfill your GURs or major requirements? Is there a country that’s on your travel bucket-list? Do you want to intern, volunteer, or do service-learning? Make a list of your main goals, and what you hope to get out of your study abroad experience. Creating a list of goals can help you decide on a program. And if you’re indecisive (like me), remembering the specific reasons you want to study/intern/volunteer abroad will serve as a compass and help guide you. It’s OK to listen to the advice of others, but ultimately, it’s your experience abroad and trusting yourself – throughout the entire process – is important.

That feeling when a butterfly lands on you, and you know you made the right decision to study abroad.

Other thoughts…

In hindsight, something I might have done differently is stayed longer! I went to Costa Rica during winter quarter (early January through mid-March), and while this was a good amount of time, I would have ideally traveled for the whole semester. In my study abroad program, there were students from other universities that use the semester system. When I departed Costa Rica, the other students still had several weeks left of their program. It was difficult to leave knowing that my friends were continuing their study abroad programs, while mine had ended. Since I’m already in my fourth year at WWU, I do not have time to study abroad again. However, studying abroad has ignited a passion for international travel; I’m open to the idea of interning, volunteering, and/or pursuing an international career in the future. I plan to pay it forward by continuing to volunteer in the Bellingham and Whatcom community.

My last walk in Parque la Paz. 3-15-2024.

Navigating Emotions & Identity Abroad

While in Costa Rica, I experienced a whirlwind of emotions, which is I recognize is normal. In the months leading up to departure, I was frantic and stressed with preparing for my journey. When I finally arrived, I began to experience the emotional roller coaster of study abroad. There were high points, low points, and everything in between. For the first couple of weeks, it was hard for me to try new things, and I found myself saying “no” to some rare opportunities. But I gradually began emerging from my shell, and saying “yes” to opportunities. For example, I started lifting at Gym ProSalud, and met with a personal trainer. This helped with my mental and physical health, and allowed me to practice my Spanish with fellow gym-goers. Trying new things and keeping an open mind were core aspects of studying abroad.

Raquel, my trainer at Gym ProSalud, and I after a workout.

At times, I felt like out of place as a visitor from the U.S. I was hyper-aware of how others perceived me, including my appearance and behavior. Also, I felt self-conscious about my American accent when conversing with Costa Ricans. However, I pushed myself to communicate as much as possible, even if I felt anxious. I rehearsed lines in my head, and wrote down words or phrases I intended to use. When Costa Ricans noticed that my friends and I were U.S. tourists, they sometimes switched to speaking in English, and used the word “americanos/as” to refer to us. This surprised me, because throughout my education, I’ve been taught that using the word “americanos” is viewed as U.S.-centric and offensive, because Latin Americans are Americans, as well, not just people from the U.S. However, rarely did I hear the word “estadounidense” (a person from the United States), which is how some Spanish-speakers refer to those from the U.S. I wasn’t exactly sure why Costa Ricans referred to me and other U.S. visitors as “americanos”. I’m wondering if perhaps it has something to do with Costa Ricans’ positive attitude toward the U.S., and the strong influence of U.S. culture in Costa Rica.

Also, as someone female-identifying, I had to adapt to social norms regarding gender. For example, I dressed more conservatively and avoided going out at night. I tried not to make eye contact with people of the opposite sex when walking down the sidewalk, since I was told that any friendly interaction might be misinterpreted as something more. Also, while Costa Rica is mostly LGBT+ friendly, many people still believe in the classification of gender binary. Some of my peers who identified as queer felt misgendered when others used incorrect pronouns or assumed their gender identity. The gender neutral pronoun in Spanish is “elle” (they/them), but I didn’t hear it being used. These circumstances, while not always comfortable, were things that we had to accept with patience and flexibility. Although I experienced some cultural shock, I learned that having an open-mind is what allows you to adapt to the new environment.

To conclude, my study abroad and service-learning experience was memorable, exciting, and meaningful. I achieved my goals of improving my Spanish proficiency, learning about Costa Rican culture and traditions, and engaging with the local community. Most importantly to me, I built meaningful relationships with peers, professors, advisors, and my host family. While not every day was perfect (life isn’t!), and there were numerous challenges, I survived the low moments and came back more resilient. To anyone who is thinking of studying abroad, or is currently studying abroad, my piece of advice is to say “yes” to opportunities that excite you or push you in a good way. Also, it’s okay to say “no” when you’re feeling overwhelmed or overworked; practice following your intuition when faced with a difficult choice or a challenge. You’ve got this! ¡Buen viaje!

Visiting the cloud forests of Monteverde might be my favorite trip I took in Costa Rica.